tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8003301253844365577.post5361281025720153949..comments2023-06-20T05:33:45.598-04:00Comments on The Crazy Cat Lady: It's ok to fall down and skin your knee...meganhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07975985275485358062noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8003301253844365577.post-38917530686050611822011-07-08T10:27:34.138-04:002011-07-08T10:27:34.138-04:00I'm so sorry you're in this situation! Tal...I'm so sorry you're in this situation! Talking to someone may help (love blogs for this reason too!) I'll definitely be praying for you as you seek a career that will work for you and a family/baby option that will leave you both feeling fulfilled. Hang in there sweetie!!Sarah B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13681626689891883344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8003301253844365577.post-46946809526388818822011-07-08T09:43:37.917-04:002011-07-08T09:43:37.917-04:00I'm ready more than ever to have drinks with y...I'm ready more than ever to have drinks with you before B.Spears and give you a giant hug. You're going through so much right now and it sucks. I'm so sorry. None of this is your fault and somehow, it will all work out. There is a cosmic plan out there and this all will turn around for you. It has to.Jessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02939653989946091321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8003301253844365577.post-89179800584506297272011-07-07T09:40:34.213-04:002011-07-07T09:40:34.213-04:00Oh hun. I am so sorry you are going through all of...Oh hun. I am so sorry you are going through all of this. <br /><br />I graduated with a psychology degree, ended up in a job I hate and that inspired me to find my true passion, photography. I'm not using my degree at all and I have had some regrets in the past but I have none now. I wouldn't trade any of my experiences because they led me to photography. It took me four years but I got there. You will too. Just don't stop looking.<br /><br />As for the fertility stuff, I could have written the paragraph about feeling like a failure myself. I don't know how much you have read from my blog and twitter but I had surgery two months ago. I had cysts, endometriosis and two blocked tubes. My doctor told me the only way we would get pregnant is through in vitro. <br /><br />I was so angry. I was so mad at my body for failing at the one damn thing it was supposed to do. (Apparently I'm still pissed because the swear words just come out without me realizing it!) We are still hopeful that we will be able to get pregnant naturally but it's so hard. After 13 months of pain, negative tests and tears, I'm exhausted. <br /><br />I am here for you. Anytime you need me, I'm here. One thing you will learn is that there are a lot of women going through fertility issues and they are so supportive. I swear, I don't know what I would to without my twitter girls. The day my period starts and I am completely devastated, I have friends I can text/tweet and they are there for me immediately. I do the same for them and I will for you too. You are NOT alone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8003301253844365577.post-82373025787575190642011-07-07T09:30:53.928-04:002011-07-07T09:30:53.928-04:00Hang in there, girl. I am with you on all of this...Hang in there, girl. I am with you on all of this ... I've been trying to find a new job since October and have applied a million places, but with no luck. And I am having babymaker issues as well. We've been trying for close to a year now and it is so depressing and frustrating and ... ugh. Just, ugh. I have some fertility challenges and they appear to be taking over. If you ever need to commiserate ... you know how to contact me. :)Shainahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12217445439159772301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8003301253844365577.post-78367120413584583982011-07-07T09:23:45.421-04:002011-07-07T09:23:45.421-04:00@Layla Thank you Layla. Sometimes it is hard becau...@<a href="#c2067058528142032154" rel="nofollow">Layla</a> Thank you Layla. Sometimes it is hard because I don't think people get it. They say, "it'll be fine." And it might be. BUT it might not be. And I'm guilty and miserable and cry all the damn time. Ugh. I love you. Thank you for being so damn awesome.meganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07975985275485358062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8003301253844365577.post-20670585281420321542011-07-07T09:15:12.321-04:002011-07-07T09:15:12.321-04:00I totally understand you on the fear of failure, t...I totally understand you on the fear of failure, the cosmic plan, and the job frustration. Well, and on the baby maker. Are we living similar lives? HOnestly, your husband sounds awesome and understanding. But I have the same worries about Josh - I could live my whole life, gleefully, without ever worrying about having kids but I know Josh wants one. Add my NOT wanting one to my damaged goods, and well...the guilt and pressure is overwhelming. I don't really have any words of wisdom, but I can commiserate and if you ever need to talk, I'm here.Laylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14421540686236873204noreply@blogger.com